Forget Me Not – Julie’s memoirs

Day 10 – Customer Services

Day 10 – Customer Services

All businesses will deal with the public in one form or another. You could say your organisation is B to B (business to business) or B to C (business to customer). It doesn’t matter what terminology you use; you are all going to be dealing with people. As a result, you’re going to need customer service. Underestimating good customer services will be detrimental to your organisation.

Indeed, many websites promote businesses that have excellent customer service. For example, trust pilot, this site is where people write about the experiences they’ve had.

Get one critical review from an unhappy customer could damage the business reputation. It is now common to hear people write reviews on trust pilots. The business owner can reply to the the review or correct any wrong or nasty reviews, because of the enormous damage it can do to an organisation.

If you do not have excellent customer service within your business, then you will lose clients.

When I started my business, it was just myself and any issues that arose I could deal with instantly. When I took on staff, processes were not in place. I remember one incident one of my members of the team phoned me when I was sick to say that she’d upset one of my customers. She was worried that she couldn’t resolve his issue. It also turned out that they had an argument, and my staff member didn’t like the way he spoke to her, and I thought he was insulting. My client couldn’t understand why somebody in my employment would not do the work he had asked her to do. A complete breakdown in communications at that point in customer services was void. I had to speak to the employee and the customer to find out exactly what’s going on. It transpired that it was just a miscommunication of my employees not understanding his tone, narrative, and requirements. My client thought my employee was rude, obnoxious is unhelpful.

I still have this client working with me, and my member of staff has now moved on. Not that she was inadequate at her job. She was very good at her job—however, the terminology my client used and her attitude towards him breakdown. I had to nurture both relationships to ensure I kept both my employees and my client. As a result, a complaint procedure is in place for our customer services team.

What I have learnt about Customer Services

  1. Customers aren’t always right, but they like to think they are, and you need to stand up to your customer if they are wrong.
  2. It is easy to misunderstand terminology and tonality.  There are times you need to step back to resolve the issue.
  3. The relationship between the customer and the business is delicate.  The relationship should be nurtured.

Writing My Memoirs – 31 Day Challenge – Video and Blog Posts

Day 21 – An Expert
Day 25 – Bullying is Slow
Day 29 – Bullied Health
Day 22 – Fire a Client
Day 26 – Management
Day 30 – Survival
Day 23 – A Dilemma
Day 27 – Accused
Day 31 – I Made It
Day 24 – Sold
Day 28 – Promotion

Day 9 – Destination Shopping while writing my memoirs

Day 9 – Destination Shopping while writing my memoirs

Destination Shopping while writing my memoirs.

Continuing the research into destination shopping, I visited Tubney Retail Park in Dorset.  The retail park itself is a destination shopping centre.  There is ample parking easy access for cars, walking and buses.  However, I think their target audience is car drivers.

As an aside, and by comparison

IKEA has thought about the customer, the customer journey and envy purchasing.  They have their showrooms laid out in a way that invites aspirational living. IKEA has been in the United Kingdom for many years and is incredibly popular.  Indeed, in some towns, you queue to enter the shop (pre pandemic). 

The three shops I visited today do not appear to have thought about the customer. They are stuck in the same layout as was around in the 1950s. The customer journey and envy purchasing are non-existent.

Dunelm’s

The first shop I went into was Dunelms.  A shop specialising in home furnishings.  Like most shops in the United Kingdom, there is a dedicated path through the shop.  Items are in order of interest and psychological purchasing. Dunelm’s should look at how IKEA has attracted customers.  I was looking for new towels, but I didn’t enjoy my time in the shop, the staff were too busy to talk to me.  In short, I felt like I was intruding on their lovely displays. As a result, I bought nothing in this shop.  I didn’t have that enjoyable customer experience I was looking for and became frustrated.

The Range

The next shop I entered was The Range.  I have walked out of this shop before as I dislike the lighting, as it is too oppressive.  The lights are dim; it feels dark; the fixtures are so full, you can barely walk around the shop without banging into something.  I spent 15 minutes in this shop, and that included going to the loo. 

Home Bargains

The last shop I visited was Home Bargains, selling cheaper homeware, from food and garden furniture to toiletries.  The shop is bright, light and there is plenty of walking space.  I have, on previous occasions, spent up to an hour in this shop just looking around.  Thinking about the products for sale, could I use them in my home.  However, on this occasion, I asked for help from one of the shop assistants.  Unfortunately, she had no clue about the products she was selling.  My conversation was very abrupt and along the lines of, it’s over there if we have it. 

Dunelms Bedroom
The Range Bedroom
Home Bargains Bedroom

I am not a demanding shopper.  However, I work hard for my money, and I want to enjoy spending it.  When I purchased a computer a few years ago, I walked into PC World and laid down my expectations.  I told the assistant that I wanted to buy a laptop and have an enjoyable experience or go elsewhere.  The assistant couldn’t have been nicer.  He was attentive, helpful and guided me directly to the Laptop I needed.  An enjoyable experience and as a result, I often go back to that shop.

Destination Shopping via a website

As my business is very much an online business, I want a destination website.  I went to the website of each business. 

Dunelm’s has some images perfectly correct.  There are some aspirational images of their products.  The beds look luxurious, and you can see yourself asleep in them.  Then they look at each item.  I am not sure I would look at their website if I weren’t writing this post.  However, I would look now.

The website for the Range could appear just as busy as the shop.  The top banner is dynamic with loads of clashing images.  However, the website is bright and full of information.  I am not sure where my eyes fall on the homepage as there is too much to see.  The product pages are helpful and bright.  I prefer more space with images, but that is very much a personal style issue. Would I visit this website?  I am not sure.  Maybe for price comparisons.

The final website was for Home Bargains.  Like the previous two websites, it was bright, easy to read and navigate.  I would not have thought to visit their website in the past.  It would never occur to me that Home Bargains would sell online.  I don’t know why.  Would I revisit this site? Yes, I think I would.

All three shops have a physical presence.  All three shops have a website that is also selling their products.  Do the shop and website give the same customer feel? Dunelm’s and The Range certainly don’t.  It feels as if they are two very distinct businesses (which they could be).  Home bargains was a surprise.  I visit this shop every week.  The website appears to have the same feel as the shop.

My View and my clients

I want my clients to have the same feeling when they meet us in person as when they visit the website.  It is going back to getting that personality of the business and website to match.  Maybe that is the key to marketing, being coherent?  All touches with potential clients have the same feel and personality.  Is branding about the ethos of the company and saleable products? 

What I learnt about writing my memoirs

  1. I don’t want to fight a website for information.
  2. My website and company should have the same message, the same personality.
  3. Reviewing successful websites and businesses to see what they do well is valuable for the success of your business.

Writing My Memoirs – 31 Day Challenge – Video and Blog Posts

Day 21 – An Expert
Day 25 – Bullying is Slow
Day 29 – Bullied Health
Day 22 – Fire a Client
Day 26 – Management
Day 30 – Survival
Day 23 – A Dilemma
Day 27 – Accused
Day 31 – I Made It
Day 24 – Sold
Day 28 – Promotion

Day 8 – Destination Website – The Decision

Day 8 – Destination Website – The Decision

Destination Website – The Decision and now for the changes

After my last post (see here), I revisited www.publishmystoires.com and view it as a visitor.  I want this website to be a destination website, and I feel that it’s more about me.  About my skills at writing my memoirs, about what I do and the skills I have.  It may not be about my potential clients and could be more of a lecture.  The website is a sales tool that yells, look at me.  As opposed to, so, you want to write your memoirs, well this is what you need to do.  My blog www.forgetmenot.publishmystories.com is the place to tell people about me.

There is a theory that you should give away all your content for free as a good business.  If people want to use your services, they will judge you on your knowledge.  If you are giving your information away for free, you demonstrate you know your services.  You are showing your clients that you are open and honest.  My website is transparent, my prices are visible, and I tell my clients what I do. 

Destination Website

However, I don’t think I give away much information to my clients for free.  When speaking with me, clients tell me I can overload them with ideas and suggestions.  My passion for their memoirs needs to slow down and get one or two tasks completed before moving on.

My clients tell me that my passion is infectious.

Publishing and helping people write their memoirs is a passion for me.  It is so important that we don’t lose the life lessons.  We should pass these lessons on to the next generation.  The government also agrees with me.  How often have you heard a politician say that ‘lessons have been learnt!’ this is all I am doing, helping people pass on lessons.

I know that sometimes my communication style is very middle class.  Very 1950s, prim and proper.  Please understand, I am not ashamed of being middle class because I am middle class and proud of it.  Being middle class is not a dirty word. It is not an embarrassment.  It just is.  I want my communications to reflect my personality.  I want my business to reflect my passion.

Family Feedback

My brother, looking cool on Bournemouth Pier

I asked my brother to watch one video I created (day two). I thought I came off well and was open, friendly, and relaxed.  My brother disagreed and thought I was stiff, reserved, and nervous.  It’s so interesting that what you think you have said is not what other people hear or see.  Paul (my brother) wants my personality to come across in the videos. He knows me well. He understands my passion and is very supportive of my www.publishmystories.com.  I now need to revisit my video recordings style. 

It’s not that straightforward

YouTube and matching my blog posts is all a learning curve for me.  I know that at the beginning of my video monologues, I will make mistakes.  There will be improvements, changes, and experiments.  Having a destination website and YouTube channel is one of my marketing strategies.  I need to get it right.  I also know that what I write in the blog has to be similar to YouTube.  These subtle changes are hard to balance, and I think I may overthink the situation. 

Maybe I need to look at the camera as one of my clients, stay focused and discuss the post with suggestions.  Added to this, I need to add keywords and phrases in the narrative so Google will find the post.  The posts then must pass Yoast’s SEO rules and a few other tools that I use.  Finally, the post URL is to be to several social media outlets.

What I learnt about writing my memoirs

  1. My videos are not showing my personality and passion for my clients
  2. Marketing is about the client and not my skills within the business.  My expertise is a given. That is why I am in business 
  3. Giving away free material is a valid marketing strategy.  If a client works with you, they know and understand your expectations

Writing My Memoirs – 31 Day Challenge – Video and Blog Posts

Day 21 – An Expert
Day 25 – Bullying is Slow
Day 29 – Bullied Health
Day 22 – Fire a Client
Day 26 – Management
Day 30 – Survival
Day 23 – A Dilemma
Day 27 – Accused
Day 31 – I Made It
Day 24 – Sold
Day 28 – Promotion

Day 7 – Is your business a destination business?

Day 7 – Is your business a destination business?

A Destination Business?

Is your business a destination business?  Or is it a I need business and don’t care who you are as long as you can sort out my issue?  Alternatively it could be a luxury business that would be used occasionally by those with money to spare?  It’s a tricky question to answer. My business is a need now business, but I want it to be a destination business.

I went to IKEA today, and this must be one of the most successful destination businesses there are. When you go to IKEA, it’s more of an experience. Indeed, some of my friends tell me how they enjoy going to IKEA to have the ‘IKEA experience’.

The IKEA Experience

The Ikea experience involves arriving at IKEA at about 10.30 or 11 am, going directly to the café and having meatballs, chips, and a coffee and then walking around the shop for a few hours getting ideas and discussing the rooms created by IKEA.  After shopping, they return to the restaurant for something to eat on the way out.  They plan to spend at least five hours just walking around and looking for bargains. Indeed, IKEA is a destination business.

(The perfect business waiting area from IKEA)

Destination Business with writing my memoirs
Destination Business with writing my memoirs
IKEA – Bedroom
Destination Business with writing my memoirs
Bedroom – IKea

Destination Business with writing my memoirs
IKEA – Dressing Room

Destination businesses can also be online, for example, Amazon, eBay, and YouTube.  These websites understand their customer’s needs.  They offer the services quickly, efficiently and without complications.  We know they will deliver, and we trust that the information from these sites will be accurate, informative, and valuable.  

What makes a destination business?

Make sure you understand your customers’ needs (or how you will solve the ‘pain’ they are currently in) and what it is they are after.  Leverage your products in a way that your customers understand what it is your offering.  How can you make your products or services vital to your customers? For example, if I say I am a solicitor and leave it at that.  Will my customer know what services I offer?  We know different solicitors provide different services—for example, Contract law v Criminal Law.  If I said, I am a contract solicitor. You understand with certainty which part of the law they work. 

Add an Upsell

Add an upsell – something your customers didn’t think they wanted until you showed them how important or valuable it would be for them.  Going back to IKEA, if you popped in for a few candles, how likely are you to browse the store and pick up a few other odds and ends.  I could never go into IKEA without spending at least £60.  Did I need the items before I went into IKEA? No?  Did I know the things existed before I went into IKEA? Not only did I not know they existed, but I didn’t know I wanted them. 

My website is www.publishmystoires.com.  In the title, it states that I publish stories.  Within that heading, there are sections for writing memoirs, publishing fiction and poems.  My blog www.forgetmenot.publishmystories.com is all about writing my memoirs and letting people know that writing memoirs are easy once you understand your topic.  Therefore, I clearly state that I can transcribe manuscripts ready for publishing. 

How to upsell on a website?

Upselling has been standard on a website for many years. It starts with you giving your email address for a free eBook or something else just as enjoyable.  Then at check out, you see other items that may be of interest.  You will even a notice of how many people have bought that item today.  Confirming that your decision was wise and other people agree with you.

My upsell is letting my authors know I can arrange for their books to be published.  I can also create a simple website for them and help them start their marketing plan if needed.

Getting customers to trust you and your services

Getting customers to trust and respect you is not as easy as it sounds.  You must provide flawless service.  Have superb customer services and aftercare.  The product has to be outstanding, and you need to be as passionate about your customer as they are.  The customer needs to feel that they are the only person you are looking after.  To be blunt, you want them to come back time after time and tell everyone about your reasonable service.  Testimonials, customer feedback, and surveys are so important.

What I learnt about writing my memoirs

  1. Customers will support and spend money on a destination business
  2. Understanding your customer’s needs and easing ‘their pain’ has to be the target for any entrepreneur
  3. A thriving destination business is the responsibility of the owner and customer.  Customers will vote with their feet or credit card.

Writing My Memoirs – 31 Day Challenge – Video and Blog Posts

Day 21 – An Expert
Day 25 – Bullying is Slow
Day 29 – Bullied Health
Day 22 – Fire a Client
Day 26 – Management
Day 30 – Survival
Day 23 – A Dilemma
Day 27 – Accused
Day 31 – I Made It
Day 24 – Sold
Day 28 – Promotion

Day 6 – WALKING AWAY WHEN NOT WRITING IN YOUR VOICE

Day 6 – WALKING AWAY WHEN NOT WRITING IN YOUR VOICE

Writing in your voice is so crucial to your writing style. I know this as I had lost mine; if I am honest, this is not the original blog post I was going to post today.  I had spent the last three hours writing a post and researching wearing a dressing gown outside the home.  The reason for this was that I opened my curtains today and noticed a woman walking her dog.  She was wearing a pink terry-towelling dressing gown and flip-flops.  My entire article was about social norms and values, our individual freedoms and being judgemental.  It was more like an essay or lecture.  So my three hours have resulted in no blog post and me starting afresh. 

Deciding if you should walk away from a task can be daunting.  You need to evaluate several factors.  How much time is this costing you?  Should you spend your time on more cost-effective tasks?  Is there someone cheaper and more experienced that can do the job instead of you?  After careful consideration of the above philosophy. I am going to walk away from the previous three hours of research.  The post will be marked down as an experience to stay focused in the future.  It turned out to be a vanity blog post to say, look at me, don’t I know many long words. 

Deciding if you should walk away from a task can be daunting.  You need to evaluate several factors.  How much time is this costing you?  Should you spend your time on more cost-effective tasks?  Is there someone cheaper and more experienced that can do the job instead of you?  After careful consideration of the above philosophy. I am going to walk away from the previous three hours of research.  The post will be marked down as an experience to stay focused in the future.  It turned out to be a vanity blog post to say, look at me, don’t I know many long words.

I don’t want to write my memoirs using words that are not from my mouth. Words need to resonate with me, as they are so important.  My style of writing is straightforward, to the point, and I think easy to read.  Using a voice that is not mine is not part of me writing my memoirs or www.forgetmenot.publishmystoires.com.

Writing in your voice

Writing in your voice is so important; it will convey more to the reader about you than you will realise.  You tell your reader your truth in your words, and it is you being genuine when writing your memoirs.  It is very much the tone you use, the words, the way you describe something.  When writing your memoirs, you have the control.

So, I stopped writing my last post.  It was a good essay if I was at university, but I don’t want to write in that style.  Writing my memoirs in this business blog is about me.  I do not wish to lecture or get on my high horse and tell you how to think.  I would prefer you get to know me and my style, know Publish My Stories, and writing memoirs is fun.

What I learnt about writing my memoirs

  1. I need to stay focused on my primary goal and not go off on a tangent
  2. Have the courage to walk away from a business deal or activity if it isn’t working
  3. I have found my voice in my blog and my business.

Writing My Memoirs – 31 Day Challenge – Video and Blog Posts

Day 21 – An Expert
Day 25 – Bullying is Slow
Day 29 – Bullied Health
Day 22 – Fire a Client
Day 26 – Management
Day 30 – Survival
Day 23 – A Dilemma
Day 27 – Accused
Day 31 – I Made It
Day 24 – Sold
Day 28 – Promotion